Most people don't know how to create a union that is an adventure. Instead they experience their relationship as a container, a hatbox for an old romance.
Containtment is the antithesis of adventure; and a relationship can be an adventure only when both people are genuinely crazy about each other and nobody's asking anybody to stop being himself or herslf. It's important to remember that excitement lies in being open to the unexpected-not only to where your relationship will take you, but also to what each of you will become as a result.
So, if you want a relationship that is truly an adventure, be open to discovering the person you love as he endlessly, expressively, unfolds himself; don't spend your life remembering how it used to be or trying to get her to be the way she once was.
Hey WeiLing, this is delicated to you. Hope you can read & truly understand the meaning of this quote. All the best to you & be your trueself especially in a relationship you will gain more out of it... Good luck & if you need a listening ear just give me a buzz.
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