Its just a book....

Still remember the book that i recommand that u guys to read, Truely mars and venus? I have to say this is just only a book, a small guideline about how we ladies are different from gentleman out there and vice versa. So please so take it to heart so much and u don't have to listen to each and every words that is written in this book. Its just a book to help us understand our the other half better but not to the extend that u should agree with each and every words written in this book.

The most important thing between a couple is trust and communictaion. Trust means having faith and beliefs in the person but not encouraging him/her to do things against the law neither should u agree with him/her doing something which will hurt your relationship. Hence when u feel hurt or upset about something that he/she had done towards you, you should communicate the message across effectivly to him/her other than telling them that you know why he/she have been behaving in this way also say that you are unhappy, upset or angry with certain behaviour that he/she is having now. Trust can caome very easily and disappear in thin air very fast too... Just remember that what you do and behave will affect ur partner's level of trust for you.

Communication is not as easy as you think it is... its something that we should learn to really communicate effectivly with other people be it our partner, family members or friends. We are given two eras and only one mouth because whoever created us wanted us to listen more and talk less or mayb we were meant to listen twice as much as we talked. It is also very important that we listen attentively to what we patner is saying so that he/she will feel that he/she is being understood rather than asking them to repeating their question or what they are saying again and again. Just put yourself in his/her shoe won't you feel angry and piss? For me i will and i definitely don't like to keep repeating my question and what im saying over and over again! It make me feels that he is not seriously about me and never take an intertest in what im saying and doing... It will make me angry and upset in the end i won't even want to continue in this relationship anymore.

However, all of this above is something that we can learn through our everyday life when we interact with people around us. We are born learners from the very first day we were bron till now whatever age you are at. Since a baby our from our mothers womb, we have to learn how to breath with our lungs, leran how to crawl, stand, walk and talk and the list goes on and on..... I agree there are a few smart babies out there somewhere but let's talk about us the normal baby who are not bron so smart but still mange to survive this society all thanks to our willness to learn!! Here another book to help anybody facing realtionship problem its call The New Couple book, you can apply the concepts in this book but please just don't take it too personal k! :-)